tamlynraven:
colinweaver:
tamlynraven:
quelquechosedexotique:
austinimus:
raine-nightshade:
Now stfu with that shit
lols
So am I the only girl who has never successfully had romantic interest in a friend and has never successfully been friends with boys who were first more than friends? Because the friendzone is an active portion of my life. Chris doesn’t count.
I’m pretty sure that’s not what this means. It’s saying that just being nice to a girl doesn’t mean they’ll automatically sleep with you. It’s not saying that the friend zone is a place that you go after a relationship ends but that it is an excuse that has been created to suggest that the person doing the “friend zoning” is in the wrong because you were just so nice to them and therefore they are the jerk for not being interested in you. I don’t know if that made any sense BUT- obviously you aren’t the only girl that that’s happened to, but it’s a completely different animal than what is being talked about here.
I’m friends with everyone. Does that mean they’re all trying to have sex with me? EEW
yep, everybody.
In all seriousness, I hate the term friend-zone, and I also pretty much think anything that trivializes anyone’s honest feelings or dehumanizes any individual is absolute garbage. I also hate blanket terms. But I don’t hate blankets.
What I hate the most though (yes, I am filled with quite a lot of hate, but not really, it’s just the best word for this) is people who have no sense of empathy, and those are usually the idiots saying, “Yeah bro, she totally put me in the friend zone!”
Oh yeah? She “put you in the friend zone”? Did it ever occur to you that, hey, I don’t know, maybe she just don’t like ya that much? Or maybe she’s just getting over someone else, or maybe you have no idea and you’re so unreasonably arrogant that you actually believe everyone should like you as long as you’re not a total asshole to them.
You know what I do when a girl doesn’t like me? Well… Nothing. I actually just tried to think for a second and see if I could think of anything that I actually specifically do when a girl that I am interested in doesn’t feel the same way, but I can’t. I don’t have the time, and I certainly don’t have the patience to spend massive amounts of time trying to convince people to like me. People either like you or they don’t, and as long as you’re representing yourself honestly (read: being yourself), then I see it as time saved and headaches avoided. Those rare moments when two people are being themselves and happen to like each other at the same time are fucking awesome, but they are rare.
I’m not preaching to you by the way, I’m just going ranting because Morpheus is staring at me like that and it’s making me angry.
1:05 pm • 7 April 2012
tamlynraven:
quelquechosedexotique:
austinimus:
raine-nightshade:
Now stfu with that shit
lols
So am I the only girl who has never successfully had romantic interest in a friend and has never successfully been friends with boys who were first more than friends? Because the friendzone is an active portion of my life. Chris doesn’t count.
I’m pretty sure that’s not what this means. It’s saying that just being nice to a girl doesn’t mean they’ll automatically sleep with you. It’s not saying that the friend zone is a place that you go after a relationship ends but that it is an excuse that has been created to suggest that the person doing the “friend zoning” is in the wrong because you were just so nice to them and therefore they are the jerk for not being interested in you. I don’t know if that made any sense BUT- obviously you aren’t the only girl that that’s happened to, but it’s a completely different animal than what is being talked about here.
I’m friends with everyone. Does that mean they’re all trying to have sex with me? EEW
12:49 pm • 7 April 2012
MORE SHAMELESS SELF PROMOTION
Please go visit my music page and “like” me. Do it even if you don’t like me. Listen to my stuff and tell me it’s good, or tell me it’s terrible. Do it!
http://www.facebook.com/colinweavermusic
12:48 pm • 7 April 2012
Yeah, a bird’s gonna take a shit on your head.
(Source: makingdandelionwishes, via astuteslytherin)
10:36 am • 6 April 2012
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Colin Weaver - Traumatic Insemination
So, I have to write songs to titles that other people make up, and this is one Christian suggested I do. I couldn’t bring myself to actually write about “Traumatic Insemination”, so I wrote a song about a song called Traumatic Insemination. It’s a pop song. Hehe!
God damnit. It just needs drums.
12:57 pm • 5 April 2012
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NEW SONG TIME!
This song is called “Blue & Gold” and it’s off of my breakthrough sophomore album, Breakthrough Sophomore Album.
I’m just kidding, I don’t have any albums. But Josh Blair is on bass on this one guys, and he sounds fucking incredible. Let me know what you think. I’m finally done with writer’s block! I tried it for a while but it just wasn’t for me.
3:26 pm • 19 March 2012
F*** it. I’m back.
I also think it’s funny to censor yourself.
I just missed you guys.
5:52 pm • 17 March 2012
So, I’m retiring from tumblr.
I don’t post that much anymore, and honestly, one of my favorite things about tumblr in the first place was the freedom to post whatever I wanted about whatever I thought, and I simply can’t do that here anymore. I met some awesome people on here. If I start a new one, I’ll be sure to refollow you!
11:15 am • 15 February 2012
make hay
I tried making the hay
sunshine doesn’t work
just one of
gods exalted guilty lies
fluttering around like butterflies
thriving in the heat
how can I stay on time
the clock sings a lullaby
the unregistered nocturne ticking leaks
from restless mens machines
you don’t impress me
with your bitter black coffee
leave before the sun comes up
and the light messes you up
this is not where you belong
curtains bless sleep
with a nursing deed
don’t turn off the lamp
I can’t nod off
the morning moon
still has a promise to keep
and this is where I belong
7:50 am • 11 February 2012
